His Glory and My Good: A New Song from City Alight
5 months ago
a tameion is a meeting room where one gathers with others to discuss business, share ideas and spur one another onwards
a Christian family is a church...a society of Christians gathered for the worshipping and serving of God (Baxter. p83).This is the call of the family, to gather and worship and serve God in life by discipling new and young believers, modeling Christian living and faith, praising God for his answers to pray and requesting of him the necessities of life. This is our call as Christians generically and as churches corporately. Maybe the lack of church prayer stems from a lack of family prayer and a misuderstanding of the nature and purpose of family.
In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth (Genesis 1:1).
"First, then, it seems because you love an ungodly person, you will be easily turned to be ungodly. If so, you are not much better already. If love will not draw you to their mind to be ungodly, why should you thing love will draw them to your mind to be godly? Are you stronger in grace than they are in sin? Second, if you know well what grace is and what a sinful, unrenewed soul is, you would not think it so easy a matter to convert a soul. Why are so few converted if it is so easy a thing? You cannot make yourselves better by adding higher degrees to the grace you have; much less can you make others better by giving them the grace that they do not have. Third, it is true that God is able to convert them when he will; and it is true that for aught I know it may be done. What of it? Will you, in so weighty a case, take up with a mere possibility? God can make a beggar rich, and for aught you know the contrary, he will do it; and yet you will not, therefore, marry a beggar; nor will you marry a leper because God can heal him. Why then should you marry an ungodly person because God can convert him? See it done first, if you love your peace and safety." p44-45
If you fear God, your chief end in marriage will be to have one who will be a helper to your soul and further you in the way to heaven. p42Going on Baxter gives some advice in evaluating potential prospects,
“But Joseph said to them, “Don’t be afraid. Am I in the place of God? You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives. So then, don’t be afraid. I will provide for you and your children.” And he reassured them and spoke kindly to them.” (Genesis 50:19–21)
A sick man turned to his doctor as he was preparing to
Leave the examination room and said, 'Doctor, I am afraid to die. Tell me what lies on the other side.'
Very quietly, the doctor said, 'I don't know.'
'You don't know? You're, a Christian man, And don't know what's on the other side?'
The doctor was holding the handle of the door;
On the other side came a sound of scratching and whining, and as he opened the door, a dog sprang into the room and leaped on him with an eager show of gladness.
Turning to the patient, the doctor said, 'Did you notice my dog?
He's never been in this room before. He didn't know what was inside. He knew nothing except that his master was here, and when the door opened, he sprang in without fear. I know little of what is on the other side of death, But I do know one thing....I know my Master is there and that is enough.'This is a great way for us to explain death to our children, of course as they grow they will have more questions and while we can't answer all of the questions about the afterlife, there are a few things that we do know about heaven. Read this Scripture for a primer on the topic: Revelation 21:22-22:5
"Just being around godly people is insufficient...some of the most tragic stories in the Bible concern parental failure." (Wilson, Recovering the Lost Tools of Learning, pg. 72)These words, present a challenging view to most modern parenting and most Christian approaches to education. Somehow we took the epitaph, "Bad company corrupts good people" and inverted it to say, "Good company creates good people. As parents we often think that our children will catch the faith by being around us, other church going believers, and by attending a Christian school.